People keep asking when are you going to get married? When we answer that neither of us have money (school debts, credit debts), we still live at home (and we would not want to be married and living with parents), and don't have a chosen career yet, people respond with, ';Thats not good enough!'; and then go into what we should be doing; this even happens when we go to a certain Taco place.
Most of the people are friends and we don't really know how to get them to shut up.
Help.Why do people give advice when they don't understand the situation?
Hi there,
it doesn't sound like 'advice' to me, it sounds like they are trying to tell you what to do! Why don't you just change the reason why your not marrying to something like, 'we're just waiting', or 'we're too young to get married yet'. Something along them lines. Or be cocky and just say 'I don't see you married?'
Purity.StarWhy do people give advice when they don't understand the situation?
ive been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs since i was 17 and they all nag, whens the big day? but i bet if we got engaged they would say we are too young!! just ignore it. yes its annoying as hell but they really mean well. whats the freakin hurry anyways?!
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