What's your advice to people who are afraid to love and get married?

hey people


i wanted to know what you guys have to say on the issue.....What's your advice to people who are afraid to love and get married?
Based on your avatar and your previous questions, my advice is to wait until you're at least 18.What's your advice to people who are afraid to love and get married?
Never think things will change once you are married. A friend of mine got married cause they were having problems and thought that getting married would change that!! Well it didn't of course.





My Husband always said he didn't want to get married as well, i let him know my feelings on the matter basically that it wasn't a priority to me to get married but it would be nice at some point in the future. I never mentioned it to him again and just left the matter. A year later we bought a house together and another year later he popped the question totally out of the blue.





Basically I think if you give them space on the subject and just enjoy life and are happy together, they more likely to change there minds and want it at some point!
I completely feel her. I was in the same situation. After several very bad relationships I just did not trust in happily ever after. But I had to take a risk. I have only been married a little over a year but marriage like any relationship takes work. And my husband is not one to hit on me or cheat on me. So I can work with him when it comes to other things. This is the best risk I took. Good luck and just keep loving her.
If she is afraid give her time. It is better to wait than get married and regret it. I have been married for 5 years now and I know we got married to early. I am on 24 and have feelings of things I missed out on from time to time. So let her be sure she is ready and it will be a better marriage.
Do you have any friends or family members who are happily married? They might be able to set a positive example for her if you talk to them about marriage. Did your girlfriend have anything in her past that would cause her to fear commitment? Are her parents still married?
Marriage only changed people if they let it!





Technically its just a piece of paper and a promise not to cheat or now you can be taken to court! Other then that things shouldnt change!
She is being smart and cautious---that's a good thing. Don't rush her. Just keep reassuring her of your love for her. Good luck!
Fear and being afraid can sometimes be useful.....
Get over it.Love is the most beautiful thing in this world.Stop being afraid,people change only cause they want to.
Done it. Not doing it again.
Try it, is the only way to find out.
i think she's smart for being concerned - it's a HUGE thing