it feels good to give it and to get it...haWhy do people love to give advice?
It feels good to be able to help someone else. Plus why learn so much and keep it all to yourself. Wisdom is wealth. It was meant to be passed around, not hoarded.
Overtime? Really?
So how come only one answered my question about computers.
We all live as a family of sorts- and giving advice when you have a grasp on the topic is normal behavior.
Now if only somepeople can have a grasp of windows vista...
Its fun though trying,,,
cause every1s got an opinion and people love giving theres
Superficially, we might see the possibilities of working toward a common good, the commonwealth of all. Deep down though, it might be that giving advice may offer a feeling of superiority.
But hey, you gain benefit of received advice, we feel good. Everyone benefits, yea?
i enjoy helping people on yahoo.
it makes them feel better about themselves
they did 'the 'good deed]
Most people have innate desires to help others, stemming from their sense of empathy. At the same time, our animal nature makes us selfish. Giving advice creates the sense that we have done something to help others, while not requiring the expenditure of time/resources that providing physical aid might. By giving advice, we are able to assuage any sense that we are not being helpful, while at the same time avoiding actual involvement.
Giving advice may also work as a way to avoid the time and effort required in listening to a person, and shift guilt from the social milieu (ourselves included) onto the person who failed to take advice properly.
That said, solicited advice, given after time and consideration has been invested, can at times actually provide true help. It is precisely this helpful quality of good advice which makes it so that advice-giving can be considered ';helpful'; by those who use it to avoid further work.
Because it gives that person the satisfaction that they have made someone else's life that much better.
the fact that i can see in black and white people who don't know each other drawing on their own knowledge and life experience to help another person is fantastic makes you wonder why the world is in such a mess with such people around
We are social animals.
It's really fun and I enjoy helping people!
Because it FEELS good to DO good.
In my opinion, it is human nature to want to feel the significance of one鈥檚 existence. That is why people want to give advice: They want to be assured that they play a part in others鈥?lives. One advantage of listening to advice is that you will be able to see both sides of the coin, which would reduce the chances of you being bias. However, don鈥檛 keep listening to others鈥?advice all the time! After all, you are living your life, not others鈥? Always trust yourself, and listen to yourself. =)
Because we can be so much wiser when we are not involved in the situation. We can see it with a clear and unbiased eye. When you are inside the problem, you only have one perspective on it, and may not see the other side.
I love giving advice and believe I'm quite good at doing so .. I wouldn't give advice if I didn't believe in the words of which I speak .. (If I didn't know what I was talking about)
I think when you see somebody going through or experiencing something you have, then you are able to speak and understand them. When people have problems that's what they need, understanding.
Sometimes you can be reading somebodies problem out of interest and by the time you've finished you have built an opinion and have things to say .. even though you may not have planned to answer that particular question.
Being able to help somebody and make a difference, make them smile or give them re-assurance and hope, is very rewarding. The feeling of doing good and improving somebodies life, even by a small margin - It's truly overwhelming!
Y!A is home to people of different generations, genders, sexualities, religions, races, nationalities .. When people ask a question for help or guidance you know that you are going to receive a mixed bag of opinions ..
Y!A is like a smaller version of our world, with less people but the same things. You have people arguing, people laughing,
people congratulating .. you have everything!
Thank You!
%26amp; Take Care!
Well, it gives them a sense of importance, gratification because people don't really gets asked but told in life. So I suppose, people feel great when they also....get an email saying:
';Your answer has been choosen!';
for some people giving advice and helping people really brings them a satifaction, like myself, I really love to answer people's question because it lets me know that I was able to help someone and that I'm not just a waste of space. It really just depends on the person, some people think others should just fingure out their own problems by themselves, but people like me take real joy and satisfaction in helping others solve their problems.
I love to give advice - and yes, it is true for my every day life as well! I guess I am a bossy flossy...
The human spirit has a natural inborn desire to help others. You only have to read about some disaster or other to know just how heroic some people can be; even people like us!
It is this which sets us apart from the animal kingdom, plus manners.
because they love much of talking. they find advising others far more easy than applying what they advise on themeselves.
Because they cant sell, or don't know how to sell it.
i can think of a few reasons ...
people love the idea that they are helping someone and that gives them a meaning that is for them too complicated to explain
people have to share their opinions
people truly and sincerely want to help others
or just the need to talk for the sake of talking
i am answering this question because i thought i my views would interest you. if not, then at least i get the 2points =D
It's in our human nature to try to help our fellowships. In fact, when we help someone, we help ourselves indirectly. Fortunately, still there is solidarity in this beautiful world.
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