Why do some people interfere with other peoples lives with intrusive advice?

like get a new job, achieve something with your life, get a hobbie etc. at any chance they are given, when you havent even expressed any sign of unhappiness. Even to the point when they seem angry at you for not changing or living life to there requirements.Why do some people interfere with other peoples lives with intrusive advice?
I really don't know, I call them control freaks. I had friends that always do that. Its my life I could do whatever I want so **** off! I think they just want to sound smarter then you by telling you what to do like they know better then you do.Why do some people interfere with other peoples lives with intrusive advice?
NOTHING BETTER TO DO, SO THEY IN TURN TRY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE A LITTLE MORE MISERABLE FOR A LITTLE DRAMA THAT THEY CAN ADD TO THEIR BORING LIVES...SHOW THEM THAT IT DOESN'T BOTHER YOU, THAT WILL PI** THEM OFF MORE..GOOD LUCK!
They have no life of their own. They lack the ability to work with their own issues. They are also very insecure people. So instead of looking at themselves and solving their own issues they try to do that by ';intrude'; on other peoples lives.
Maybe they have their own struggles to work out. The best bet is just to ignore the advice, but try and do it kindly. There's no point in you behaving badly, just because someone else might be.
Because some people love drama. It's very sad but very true. It's different if you show signs that you need someone to talk to. But, if you're content and have little to no complaints and/or stress, then they're just trying to dig up some dirt and cause some drama. I've been around too many of those people, also, so I know how much of a pain it is. Just disassociate with the person(s) that do those things.





Good luck!!
There are two main reasons for this. The first is that you are not meeting their expectations of you, by doing something that they woundn't think of as being typical of you.


The second is that many people have regrets, and their way of dealing with those regrets is often trying to relive their life via someone else, by forcing decisions on them, etc.


When you then decide not to go with their recommendations, they get annoyed because they feel you will remake a mistake that they made. Always remember, what is wrong for one person is not always wrong for others.


Hope that helps.
Because they want the best for you. They want you to conform to their idea of success because they think that the things that they aspire to are those that you really need. They fail to appreciate that their idea of success might be a real bummer to you.





Live your own life and do your own thing. If they don't like it, then they can bloody well lump it, as we English like to say.